By Andrea Beerman, DDS 

The late Dr. Andrea Beerman (1978-2013) was a beloved member of the Pankey Institute community. She contributed this to my CoDiscovery blog years ago. I think she would be glad her words will inspire our Pankey community forever. – Paul A. Henny, DDS 

Nothing is at last sacred but the integrity of your own mind. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson 

I love this quote from Emerson and understood it with greater depth as it reconnected me with one of my personal Core Values – originality. 

It reminds me that it is my natural state to follow my own mind – my own unique ideas. Personally, I know I struggle when I try to do things like others. In these instances, I feel like I am not being my authentic self. Sometimes, I have found myself conforming or doing something “the way it’s always been done”, because it seems quicker or easier. 

I don’t have to face the truth or something that may take me to my learning edge if I do things in a rote way. I do not have to make time to enter the “classroom” of silence to know more clearly the path to choose. In these moments, I know I am not realizing the sacredness of my own mind and spirit. With this quote, I am reminded to continue to trust and tap that potential – the beautiful, unique spark of life within me. 

A friend and mentor of mine encouraged me to find a picture of myself when I was a child and put it somewhere I would see it every day. So, now I have a picture of myself at age four on my desk. I keep it in front of me, because sometimes I forget who I am in the midst of my busy days. Of course I am a dentist, but the truth is, deep down – I am still that little girl. That same bright spirit, eager to live fully, and embrace life. All I wanted then was to be loved, accepted and understood. What do I want now? If I answer honestly, I’m not sure the answers are different. 

When I see her picture it makes it really easy for me to forgive myself for all the times I came up short and for the mistakes I’ve made along the way. I see her innocence when I look at this picture, and remember I am truly doing the best I can with what I know. 

So, I have this picture on my desk – to help me remember who I am and what I really want from life. What I’ve learned – it also reminds me of the truth about others – you, my patients, family and friends. 

Beneath the layers of life, lie our bright spirits. I am at my best – in patient interactions and with my friends and family- when I can see others for who they truly are. I think e.e. cummings said it best, “It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are.” 

I wish you my very best in your journey. ~Andrea 

By John C. Cranham, DDS 

Every hour you invest in your practice is an hour invested in your future, so invest time in thinking about how you are spending your time. 

I am often asked if I have advice for young dentists starting out in practice. As I reflect on my own experience in practice and on conversations with other dentists in private practice, several thoughts emerge.  

There will be times when you are working in a chaotic, undisciplined environment because you are trying to care for as many people as you can fit into your day. You will become physically and emotionally tired. At some point, you will recognize that you can’t go on that way. You will need to create more disciplined systems for you and your team. You will need to develop your team members, so they can do more and save you time. You will need to hold yourself and them accountable.  

A young dentist must understand that when you run around and do many procedures, you could be confusing activity with productivity. When you’re working on highly thought-out treatment plans, you’re sitting down, you’re doing more well-organized dentistry on fewer patients. You’re also usually executing the dentistry better, which means fewer remakes.  

How do you position yourself to have the luxury of working on those types of cases? The advanced CE at Pankey and other top programs will move you along, but you need to be patient with yourself…and your patients. You will be bringing them along with you through the opportunities you have to educate them about their oral health, where it is headed, and what can be done. Don’t assume you will achieve your goals fast. Eventually, you will become known as the go-to dentist to solve problems and the cases will flow.  

Know your patients. Be thoughtful about moving them along. Enjoy them as you do. 

I’ve written about this before…for the first few years I felt my colleagues were surpassing me. They were doing more advanced cases and utilizing what they were learning at Pankey and Dawson. I had purchased a tiny practice filled with patients who valued dentistry when they were in pain. I aspired to do more than fill cavities. Sometimes I thought I would have to give up on my dream. But I kept talking with my patients, building relationships, raising their awareness, and eventually they began accepting treatment. I had to stay hopeful and employ the behaviors I was being mentored to employ before I could employ my advanced clinical skills.  

I learned a lot about people, not just dentistry, in my early years. I look back upon the experience with fondness now. 

It may not be this week. It may be next before you have a practice continuation plan in place and have communicated fully with your team and patients. When you do find you have some time, I encourage you to sit back and think about everything you have experienced over the last month and what new learning you have discovered. Then reach out to colleagues and talk over your learning. Continue sharing with each other throughout this time of social distancing. 

I am mindful of a quote from Carl R. Rogers: “The true wonder of learning is discovering for yourself.”  

Starting out in my career, I felt well trained technically, yet I must have subtly believed I was a “hardware” salesperson. Or, maybe it had to do with my tendency to be introverted. Whatever the reason, I found it easier to talk “hardware and technique” than to listen well and then help patients clarify their health objectives and the benefits they were seeking in their dental health care experience.  

I went to a workshop led by Carl R. Rogers titled Client-Centered Therapy. This workshop was significantly different than any of my previous educational experiences. It was a participatory experience. It took some time for me to assimilate his educational concepts into my life and practice, and I noticed right off that I had retained more from a workshop experience and could apply my understanding of what I had learned. When I returned to my office, I attempted to create a participatory learning experience for my patients. I learned from these early attempts more about learning and witnessed behavioral changes in myself and my patients.  

I sought out many other workshops at this time in my life. One was Parent Effectiveness Training, facilitated by a local devotee of Dr. Thomas Gordon. Then, I became reacquainted with Dr. Karl Olson, the retired President of North Park University where I had done my undergraduate schooling prior to going to Northwestern University Dental School.  

Olson had joined forces with Bruce Larson and Heidi Frost of Faith-At-Work and created The Leadership Training Institute, which focused on discovering your leadership potential through three separate weeks of “experiential learning.” The first week was focused on Know Yourself, the second-week focus was Know Yourself in a Small Group, and the third-week experience was focused on Designing Small Group Experiences for Others. Each of these three weeks was separated by six months of intentional application and reflection, which created a powerful learning period of discovering myself.  

From my point of view, there is nothing more rewarding than a learning experience in which one can become aware of one’s own learning in “the moment” or upon reflection. So, now that you have been thrust into participating in Knowing Yourself, your practice, your team, and your patients on a new level where there is a concern for everyone’s safety and wellbeing on an elevated scale take time to reflect on what you learned in “special moments” of the past month.  

Are any of your discoveries blog-worthy to stay in communication with your patients? They will appreciate your personal “touch.” 

Making a comment in response to this blog is one way you can encourage a “continuing conversation” of Pankey participants’ “new awarenesses.”