By Paul A. Henny, DDS 

The Case for Setting Boundaries 

When we are financially or emotionally dependent on patients saying “yes,” we crave acceptance which comes at cost: we are fearful of offending the person if we say, suggest, or do something that might trigger a “no,”—so we strategically modify our behavior to avoid rejection. 

On the other hand, independence allows us to adopt a course of action—a purpose that’s clearly justified in our mind, and accepting of the fact that some people might disagree and therefore their opinions will not influence how we feel about ourselves. So, independence involves respecting how others feel AND how we feel—a critical issue that’s known as psychological boundary. 

What’s Our Goal? 

Our goal should be to help others as much as possible—but not to manipulate them into making decisions or taking actions they would otherwise not make. If we feel like we cannot help someone, or if we believe helping a person in the way they are demanding is harmful long-term, then we simply need to find a way to respectfully agree-to-disagree, and move on. No need for moralistic stands. No need for judgment. We just need to continue our search for others who are in closer alignment with our purpose. 

As we become masterful at the execution of our purpose, we become known for it —we become “branded.” Once branded, more like-minded people can find us in the sea of other options and then make a higher level decision than “he/she is in my network.”  

Start with Personal Leadership 

Relationship-based, health-centered dentistry therefore starts with personal leadership and personal power. Who am I? What am I willing to stand for? What am I willing to share with the world? What am I unabashedly willing to promote because I believe in its value so deeply that I simply must promote it. And critically, HOW can I best promote it so that more people will be able to make better decisions for themselves that are more in alignment with our purpose, and that move them closer to an optimized health? 

“Know Thyself,” the ancient Greek appeal to greater self-awareness, is one of the four principles incorporated into L. D. Pankey’s “Cross of Dentistry.” But following this sage advice isn’t easy, as we’re pulled and pushed around by the environment; we’re constantly challenged to either adapt, resist, surrender or lead. 

Being Authentic Requires Regular Introspection 

Leading is only possible in patient-centered dentistry through authenticity—through clarified values aligned with a congruent vision and ACTION. Hence, without self-awareness, the seductions of life—the temptation to take shortcuts, and the trappings of materialism, can easily lead us away from our authentic self. What makes this process even more challenging is that when we feel threatened or rejected, we tend to do more of those things while blocking out how we truly feel. We lose ourselves in our pursuit of things that we think will sooth our anxiety.  

Gaining greater self-awareness through regular introspection is the starting point of a process that essentially never ends, but it represents the only pathway toward authentic leadership. Authentic leadership is an inside-out process that’s at the very core of patient-centered dentistry, which is why Dr. Pankey inscribed “happiness” as the outcome of his developmental philosophy. 

By Edwin A. McDonald, DDS 

Case Study 1 

Early in my practice I was introduced to a periodontist in Dallas. We began a close working relationship for many years. He was a great mentor to me. His work was superb, and his patients had great experiences. He got to know our patients so well he could guide them to the best treatment decisions.  

One day we met, and he told me that he was retiring. I told him that he couldn’t do that to me! His response was that he had found the perfect person to partner and transition with. He had.  

The most important thing that happened was my mentor took the time and made the effort to communicate with me about what was happening. It made me realize that I was important and significant in all of this. The incoming periodontist, Ron, was a young version of his predecessor with the same meticulous surgical technique, superb results, and great patient experiences. In fact, in many ways he became better.  

Years later, Ron’s office is in the same location, just beautifully remodeled and updated. The hygienists remained for many years as did most patients and almost all referral sources. Ron has been extraordinarily successful. That makes me happy. He makes me a better dentist. 

In this case, the two periodontists were philosophically aligned, clinically similar, consistent in their judgement, and had great ability to build high trust relationships. Those four components created a powerful foundation to move smoothly from the past to a great future. 

Case Study 2 

Unlike the first case study, most transitions have gaps between the old and the new. In addition, often the existing practice needs an infusion of energy, a new and expanded mindset, and a more powerful vision to move toward what is possible. 

I have a friend that bought a very traditional relationship-based practice with tons of potential. He is different than his predecessor in his management style, approach to relationships, and desire to grow his practice. He has more than doubled it in just a few years. He also has had a complete turnover in the team. In this case, he needed a team that fit how he wanted to practice. He hired individuals who were prepared to embrace a new approach to practice.  

My friend needed to become a more effective leader of his team and develop a deeper understanding of how important they are to his current and future success. That meant investing more time and energy into getting to know everyone, communicating his career goals and learning about their career goals as they together cast a vision of the future …a worthy destination that honored the past as it created an abundant future. That meant leaving behind some beliefs, assumptions, and patterns of thinking as he matured and as they matured. 

“All of the stakeholders around a practice transition will embrace the change if they see the incoming dentist and new team members living the values that have kept them connected to the practice for many years, there is clear and frequent communication, there are genuine efforts at building trust, and there is an expressed understanding of what is mutually beneficial to all parties.”
–Dr. Edwin A. McDonald (LineofSightCoaching.com) 

By Edwin A. McDonald, DDS 

It is amazing to me to realize that I have practiced for more than 40 years in a relationship based, fee for service dental practice. Dentistry has become much more complex during that time. What has not changed is the need for human beings to be loved, accepted, significant, understood, and heard. Also, people who have a high value for their health seek high clinical competence and thoughtful patient management.  

Two years ago, I started looking for a partner to continue providing my patients with comprehensive, relationship-based care. (My hands, back, and body had been telling me that it was time to slow down.) My primary goal in this transition was to create a future where the culture of my practice would continue, and the practice would thrive and grow. 

I received a call 18 months ago from my good friend, Dr. Lynne Gerlach. She said: “Mac, I want you to meet Dr. Shawn Luck.” Lynne went on to say, “I interview young dentists every day and I rarely meet people like him.” 

Shawn and I met, and I immediately understood what she meant. After a few more meetings, several phone calls with colleagues that knew Shawn well, and a thorough financial analysis, it was time for “Team Mac” to meet Dr. Shawn.  

Team relationships are critical to a successful transition. Shawn was met with enthusiasm from my team. That meant we could move forward with a detailed agreement that included terms of employment and terms of practice purchase.  

Shawn’s well-grounded character, confidence, enthusiasm, and intelligence were the factors that guided my decision. We both needed what each other had. I needed Shawn’s character, youth, energy, ambition, and strong desire to own a practice. He needed my clinical training, experience, and commitment to be a focused, consistent, and relentless teacher. 

I began communicating the transition with my team and patients a few months before meeting with Shawn. I mailed a formal letter to my patients that said that I saw three to five years of clinical practice remaining for myself. The letter began and ended with a big thank you for their loyalty, trust, and support. It let them know that I was actively looking for a young dentist to partner with who would continue to take care of them. This letter was a huge success with a thank you from almost every patient. A few patients began to schedule pending treatment that had been on their mind. 

We sent a second letter four months later to announce Dr. Luck. We began communicating about his arrival in person with enthusiasm and emailed a digital copy. The main takeaway here is that the transition immediately benefitted from consistent, focused, and abundant communication with all practice stakeholders about what we were planning and hoping for.  

We are in the middle of year one and I am focusing on mentoring Dr. Luck. We are hoping to play the infinite game as we create and pass on opportunities to the next generation. 

My hope for my Pankey Institute colleagues is you will surround yourself with great people that make you better. Build partnerships with them. Build trust at a deep level. Build community. Serve one another. Seek opportunities to pass on the values of relationship-based practice to the next generation. If you invite young dentists into a relationship and repeat the mentoring you received, we can all play this forward. Dr. Shawn Luck has already captured the spirit of wanting to do just that. 

By M. Johnson Hagood, DDS 

 As a general dentist in Vero Beach, Florida, who does a lot of restorative whole mouth dentistry, I rely on a wonderful interdisciplinary team but lately I’ve wanted to have more resources in my own practice.  

 A year ago, I decided to purchase a practice with a larger office on the beachside of town with the aim of bringing on an associate dentist with a background in periodontics and prosthodontics. I wasn’t sure if I would need to keep the 900-square-foot space I had practiced in for over two decades, so I only recently put my bungalow-style building on the market and moved fully out of it.  

 The transition has been fraught with challenges…the financing, the physical move, the tech setup, accommodating the exiting dentist and his team two days a week for a few months, and transitioning patients to a new location. Some might say I am going through a mid-life crisis, and they would be correct. My team and family have been incredible. I don’t think I could have done it without their support. They keep me going through the choppy waves. 

Many of you know that I am a surfer. I still surf in my 50s but for the last six months, I haven’t had the time. Something with the transition is always rising to my attention. Many days, I feel the kind of burnout that I haven’t felt in years. Six months from now I hope to be writing again about what has transpired and how I am finally feeling on top of my game again. But for now, I can say that it’s been tough. 

 Some of you know Debbie Bush, who helps as a remote editor for Pankey. She was in the office a couple of days ago. She knows about the trials and tribulations we have been going through, and we spent some time talking about them. 

 She observed, “I’ve been here twice, and my husband has been here twice since you moved. I can tell that your patients think the change has been seamless. From their perspective, you and your team are providing them with the same personalized attention, interest, encouragement, and care. The other dentist’s patients are getting to meet you and your team. They are sensing the positive culture of your practice. It’s okay, Doc. You will get where you want to go. It’s going to be okay. You’ll be on an even keel in a few months.”  

 That meant the world to me.  

I was able to tell her, “I wish it were easier, but I would do it all over again because I have a vision for the future, and this is the path to getting there.”   

She reminded me that much of “the chop” we are weathering through is due to things outside our control. Our values and culture have remained the same. She asked me what the biggest benefits have been since moving to the new office, and we started talking about “the bright side.” 

For starters, I am grateful for the greater space. We have one more operatory, and all our rooms are larger. It “feels good.” There is tremendous natural light coming in, pristine walls to hang my paintings on, and we have moved from a tiny, gentrified environment to an expansive more modern environment. My team is more physically comfortable. Patients have greater privacy and don’t overhear conversations outside the room they are in. On top of that, most of my patients live on the beach and are delighted I have moved closer to them. 

 The other thing I am excited about is my new CBT system. Moving into a larger space meant I could finally do 3D imaging for my patients in-house. Many patients come to my practice specifically because they are seeking treatment for TMD. I want cone beam images for every TMD patient. For years, I sent them to my endodontist for the 3D images, but now I do those images right away in my own office.  

 When my patients see the 3D images there is a wow factor but more importantly, I can be more thorough with diagnosis, and there is practically no radiation. In addition to the value-add of CBT with TMD, I’m seeing abscesses in teeth that don’t show up on regular X-rays, and the CBT will be important to a partner doing surgeries. 

 Debbie encouraged me to write about the choice of technology I made because it might help others in a similar situation. So, here goes. I considered the cone beam options on the market and decided to go with the Dexis OP 3D LX platform with a 12×15 cm field of view that enables us to see the entire dentition and TMJs in one high resolution image—the mandible, maxilla, bilateral TMJs, sinuses, and pharyngeal airway. I have always been impressed by the quality of Dexis imaging products, and the latest software with the OP 3D is intuitive. 

 I still have a long way to go to achieve my vision for expanding practice. I’ll report back on my experience early next year. I am grateful for the encouragement I receive from you, my colleagues, as I step up to pay the price, continue taking a leap of faith, and stay on course to reach my goals. 

By Edwin “Mac” McDonald DDS  

Effective management during transitions directly impacts overall success. By implementing these strategies, you’ll lead your dental practice through change more smoothly. In Part 1 of this series, I described Phase One: The Ending Zone, the time during which your team is feeling the loss of the familiar and coping with uncertainty. In Part 1, I also listed communication strategies to help them cope. Let’s look at what is likely to happen as you and your team continue to transition through change. 

Phase Two: The Neutral Zone 

During this transition phase known as the “Neutral Zone” or “Chaos Zone,” team members grapple with the loss of the old ways and the unfamiliarity of the new. Competency levels vary, and individuals may feel consciously incompetent or consciously competent. What do I mean by that? 

Some may feel they now know what they didn’t about the change and understand the value of it. They are ready to navigate the change emotionally. Others may feel they are starting to “get it” and deal with it. And others have become champions of the change and model confident competence in making the transition. Others will still experience confusion, stress, doubt or skepticism. This is when leaders need to step up and put on an encourager and coaching hat. 

Strategies for Managing this Phase 

• Discuss Strengths Utilizations: Encourage team members to identify how the change allows them to use their strengths differently and explore new opportunities. 
• Open Conversations: Lead them in conversation and empower them to create solutions as issues of the transition arise. Foster teamwork and purpose as you converse with them, so they feel vital to the practice. Encourage them to talk among themselves and lean on one another as a team because you want to retain that team. Express your appreciation for them navigating and embracing the change. You can take them outside of the office for a social meal that does not feel formal and they can feel connected even outside the office.  
• Provide Support: They will feel the need for information in order to feel secure. Ensure communication networks are open. Bringing in a transitions coach helps. Consider what HR resources you can make available to support individuals during this challenging phase. 

Remember, effective management during transitions directly impacts overall success. By implementing these strategies, you’ll lead your dental practice through change more smoothly. 

By Edwin “Mac” McDonald DDS  

Change is inevitable, and dental practices often experience significant shifts. Whether it’s practice acquisitions, personnel changes, or technology updates, leaders must navigate these transitions effectively. Here are some key strategies: 

Clear Communication: Effective communication is crucial during change initiatives. Prioritize clear and frequent communication with your team. 

Recognize Transition Phases: Understand the different phases your team will go through during transitions. Recognizing these stages helps you address their needs appropriately. 

Feedback Matters: Despite its challenges, providing feedback is essential. Avoiding it can lead to decreased morale, reduced productivity, and increased stress among team members. 

Remember, effective management during transitions directly impacts overall success. By implementing these strategies, you’ll lead your dental practice through change more smoothly. 

Phase One: The Ending Zone 

In the first phase of change, you are saying goodbye to the old and how people either individually or as a whole identify with the familiarity of it. People may experience denial, numbness, or resistance. The way each person feels and copes is likely to vary. 

It might feel like a significant loss to someone, so it is important that the leader understands how many people are affected at varying degrees of uncertainty and resentment due to the “loss” of what is no longer. Uncertainty and resentment create an environment in which team members may expend energy but not get much done.  

Recognize that this will be a time of loss and grieving for most. The key element that has the biggest positive impact is communication. I have walked several practices through ownership changes. One of them was a privately owned practice that was being acquired by a very prominent corporation. The initial response and reactions from the team members ranged from denial and numbness to resistance. Some employees who had been there the longest felt betrayed. These reactions varied from day to day, and week to week. What helped was constant communication. 

Before a change starts to happen, before the team sees signs of a transition coming, it is important to start communicating why and the transition that is likely to occur. Making employees feel secure and hopeful will reduce uncertainty and resentment. The more certainty you can give them about what will transpire and the future benefits they can expect the easier everyone will move forward, being productive and carrying forward the positive relationships you have invested in over the years. 

Strategies for Managing this Phase 

1. Explain the rationale for the change and the benefits of it. If you are able, elaborate for each team member or department. There needs to be a venue to express concerns or gain support to bring about the closure. People need to know that you care about them as individuals. 

1. Be transparent. Describe in detail what will change and also what will remain the same. Transparency is vital to cultivate trust. 

1. Describe and celebrate the success and values of the previous ways of working and identify how they will be enhanced by the change. 

As long as we, the leaders, recognize their feelings, we have the opportunity to effectively help our team move to the next phase, so they do not stay in the ending zone too long. 

By Pina Johnson, Professional Certified Coach, and Edwin (Mac) McDonald, DDS 

B.F. Skinner, a noted 20th century behavioral psychologist, conducted an intriguing and provocative experiment using laboratory mice. Using behavioral conditioning he was able to condition one group of mice to believe that through their actions they were able to determine their fate. Using the same methodology, he also succeeded in conditioning another group of mice to believe that there was nothing they could do to alter their fate. 

He then placed the first group of mice, the ones that believed their actions mattered, into a large tub filled with water. As anticipated, this group of mice, when placed in a life-threatening situation, acted instinctively and began to swim to the side of the large water-filled tub. Upon reaching the edge of the tub the mice were able to crawl out to safety. 

The second group of mice, the ones that believed that their actions were meaningless, when placed in the tub of water, simply sank to the bottom and drowned. Appropriately, the lack of responsiveness displayed by the second group of mice was termed “learned helplessness.” 

Culture Lifts or Sinks Ambition 

Belief that our actions and choices matter is essential to “making things happen.” 

According to Edgar Schein, an icon of modern leadership thought, the primary function of leadership is to create an organizational culture. The culture that we choose to create will influence every aspect of our organization and ultimately determine our dental practice’s success or failure. 

Value-based leaders understand the power to alter the course of the organization does not reside with a few; it is shared by many. Organizations with cultures based on shared beliefs and purpose are higher performing. Leaders of the highest performing organizations foster cultures rich in collaborative decision making and a profound belief that everyone has influence. 

Counter Learned Helplessness by Empowering Self-Confidence 

We have come to recognize that good-old “self-confidence” is a learned competency, and effective leaders create organizational cultures that promote and teach self-confidence to each individual team member. This is accomplished by empowering teams through collaborative decision making and ensuring each team member has been given the knowledge, skill, support, resources, and appropriate authority to accomplish each task required to meet the shared goal. 

Unleash Teamwork and Creativity 

In organizations with shared leadership cultures, human self-confidence is unleashed beyond saving oneself to act in the best interest of the organization. Knowing that our individual actions will have some effect on our organization’s future (and thus on our own future and the future of others we value) compels us to want to take actions that have positive benefit for everyone. This is “meaningful” for the individuals within the organization. This raises their engagement in the work and simultaneously generates a sense of wellbeing.  

In our dental practices, “We are serving others with empathy and care to ultimately improve their wellbeing.” This is a form of love. It begets appreciation and reciprocity. When the slings and arrows of daily life initiate negative thoughts of being out of control of a situation, remembering our purpose and prior successes enables us to see disappointments and frustrations as opportunities to create a new type of approach and carry on. 

The goal for effective leaders is to allow all of this to happen in a psychologically safe environment in which our staff need not fear repercussions for their well-intended actions even if the outcome of these actions is less than ideal. By creating organizational cultures that are psychologically safe, we draw out our organizational creativity which is often stifled by the psychological repression found in command-and-control cultures. 

Creative thinking is considered to be one our highest-level cognitive functions and has been found to be a distinguishing characteristic of exceptional organizations. The wise leader understands that their organization is best served through shared power, collaboration, and utilization of their organization’s collective creativity. 

Are You Prepared for Your Next Hiring Challenge?

Most dentists hire during a crisis because a vacancy created for various reasons drives a need to fill a position immediately. This high-stress, time-sensitive situation often undermines the dentist’s ability to hire more strategically and therefore move their practice up to the next level. In other words, dentists tend to re-create the status quo out of desperation, rather than strategically evolve their practice over time based on how they hire and develop team members.  

Understanding what you need and want to create ahead of time (skills and values that are non-negotiable in a person) is key. Hopefully, this article will prompt you to think about this truth as well as prepare for the next hiring challenge. 

Seek These 8 Personality Attributes 

According to Avrom King (and my own experience), there are eight personality attributes that must be predominant within a care team for it to prosper over time: 

1. Optimism: Despite all the craziness in today’s world, team members routinely demonstrate a hopeful and positive attitude toward adversity and others.
2. Involvement: Team members actively pursue problem identification and resolution. They are caring and committed to seeing the practice function at an optimal level.
3. High Self-Regard (not to be confused with high self-esteem): Team members feel competent, capable, and worthy of success. They believe that their lives make a positive difference in this world, and they demonstrate it every day.
4. Missionality: Team members are committed to living clarified personal values. This commitment goes far beyond themselves. They see their life as an integral part of a greater whole and congruent with the mission of the practice.
5. Energetic Curiosity: Team members are stimulated by their curiosity about people, things, and challenges. Consequently, their positive energy is contagious, and their problem-solving ability is high.
6. Resilience: Team members are flexible and able to adapt in a healthy and functional way to routine day-to-day stressors. Consequently, they don’t avoid conflict. Instead, they approach conflict maturely and with the intention of positive resolution.
7. Self-Control: Team members know who they are, where they are, and where they want to go. They also know what they are doing – or are in the process of finding out. In other words, they are effective self-leaders with the ability to delay gratification.
8. Relationship-Oriented: Team members prosper via long-term open, honest, and hidden-agenda-free relationships. Consequently, they’re able to seek out and effectively propagate opportunities for commitment in others through those relationships.

Conduct Behavioral Interviews and Assess Emotional Intelligence 

The bottom line is that our hiring process must be behaviorally sophisticated to predictably assemble a highly symbiotic team of emotionally intelligent individuals. Conduct behavioral interviews and make use of emotional intelligence and personality assessment tests. Behavioral hiring interviews ask candidates questions about how they handled specific situations in the past and the candidates are urged to provide somewhat detailed answers about their role, actions, and results. You may ask how they feel about the experiences and what they learned from them. Knowing what they know now, what would they do differently? Don’t shy away from asking them about their life goals and what appeals to them about working in a dental office. Are they enthusiastic about teamwork and making a difference in the lives of patients?